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Started by mowens, December 16, 2023, 01:41 PM

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mowens

How do you explain to a 5 year old why her Jewish friends don't celebrate Christmas while you're getting ready for a bat mitzvah for one of them?

This is what my wife is doing right now.
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RobertELee

Quote from: mowens on December 16, 2023, 01:41 PMHow do you explain to a 5 year old why her Jewish friends don't celebrate Christmas while you're getting ready for a bat mitzvah for one of them?

This is what my wife is doing right now.

You tell them they obviously need more time in the religious smack downs on the Mastercam forums.
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beej

I would just say, we believe Jesus is God and because of that we celebrate his birthday. But some people don't believe that and they don't celebrate his birthday.
Human pride weighed you down so heavily that only divine humility could raise you up again. ~Augustine of Hippo

JParis

I always tried to approach things from a child's level of comprehension.

I would tell them that not everyone has the same beliefs and that they do have celebrations but they are different.

I would avoid the direct religious connection unless asked directly. Then I would brush with very large strokes.

Simply too young to grasp what many adults still struggle to deal with...
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neurosis

Next comes the tooth fairy and the easter bunny.
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CNCAppsJames

Like John, I'd say many people have different important hoidays, and that's OK 

Only if pressed, would I explain in general terms that Jews do not believe that Jesus was The Messiah, and because of that, they do not celebrate his birth. They have a different celebration that is called Hannakkah that takes place over several days "around" the same time as Christmas. 
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Incogneeto

Quote from: RobertELee on December 16, 2023, 02:38 PMYou tell them they obviously need more time in the religious smack downs on the Mastercam forums.

We could create a Special Thread Just for Children.

We could call it.


"Neuro's Corner" :D
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mowens

She has celebrated Hanukkah with them. They even had a menorah for her to light.

I told my wife that I thought she should explain that families have there own traditions. Some include Christmas and some don't.
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Incogneeto

Quote from: mowens on December 17, 2023, 11:26 AMShe has celebrated Hanukkah with them. They even had a menorah for her to light.

I told my wife that I thought she should explain that families have there own traditions. Some include Christmas and some don't.

Kids are incredibility receptive. Much more than some adults.

Just tell them different people have different beliefs.

Keep their Mind and their Hearts open. :D
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beej

Quote from: Incogneeto on December 17, 2023, 12:21 PMKids are incredibility receptive. Much more than some adults.

Just tell them different people have different beliefs.

Keep their Mind and their Hearts open. :D
That's good advice. Someone hack your account?
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mkd

I'd delve into the intricacies of the blood libel.
 As the mohle said; it won't be long, now.

pmartin

Quote from: Incogneeto on December 17, 2023, 04:58 AMWe could create a Special Thread Just for Children.

We could call it.


"Neuro's Corner" :D

Or maybe transdevotional story time. ;)
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RobertELee

Quote from: pmartin on December 18, 2023, 07:15 AMOr maybe transdevotional story time. ;)

Smit's already been taking care of that.

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rdshear

That looks like the next Disney Princess!!  :sick:
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gcode

Quote from: rdshear on December 18, 2023, 08:50 AMThat looks like the next Disney Princess!!  :sick:

Disney is evil  :flipbird:
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