We were fooled

[mowens]

He has issues.

[neurosis]

He has issues.

I'm not happy that he's gone, but I haven't been in a single mud slinging match since he stepped away.

[Newbeeee™]

He has issues.

TBF, the VAST majority of us have, in one way, or another....

[Jeff]

I haven't been in a single mud slinging match since he stepped away.

Challenge accepted.

[neurosis]

Challenge accepted.

I can handle a little back and forth occasionally. When it's every single day, it gets exhausting. I started to feel like it was impossible to have a conversation here without getting in to a fight. And speaking of "issues", apparently my issue/weakness is my inability to ignore someone or just let a conversation go. 

[Newbeeee™]

....aaaannnndddd fence sitting....
You're welcome

[JParis]

....aaaannnndddd fence sitting....

I think he really likes sitting on the spikes in that fence 

[neurosis]

I think he really likes sitting on the spikes in that fence 

What do you think keeps me on there. 

[mowens]

Sitting on top of the fence is the only way to stay above the river of bullshit that flows everywhere. 

[megatronprime]

I can handle a little back and forth occasionally. When it's every single day, it gets exhausting. I started to feel like it was impossible to have a conversation here without getting in to a fight. And speaking of "issues", apparently my issue/weakness is my inability to ignore someone or just let a conversation go. 

That's a skill issue, but I'm sure you can see past a little bickering considering the long friendship at stake, am I wrong?

[neurosis]

That's a skill issue, but I'm sure you can see past a little bickering considering the long friendship at stake, am I wrong?

I'm not sure what you mean. I didn't tell anyone to leave. It was more a case of can dish it out but can't take it.

[megatronprime]

I'm not sure what you mean. I didn't tell anyone to leave. It was more a case of can dish it out but can't take it.

I don't know what happened Nero, could you fill me in, Incog wouldn't discuss it, he seemed upset, but at some point you guys are not gonna care about whatever it was..

[mowens]

Here's what I saw, in extremely condensed format.

At first, it just seemed like Incog ball busting on Neuro like we all do with each other but at some point it went beyond that to the realm of personal attacks. I don't think Incog realized it was going that way. I think his judgement may have been impaired.

Neuro slapped back at him pretty hard and that's when Incog left.

[neurosis]

I don't know what happened Nero, could you fill me in, Incog wouldn't discuss it, he seemed upset, but at some point you guys are not gonna care about whatever it was..

There isn't much to fill in that hasn't already been brought up in or can't be deciphered from this thread. To be fair to incog, he caught me in the wrong mood one day, but I've had at least one conversation with him about the name-calling in the past and told him it was going to happen. I think it was the time he brought my girlfriend in to the shit slinging. 

If you're wondering, I don't hold a grudge against Incog.

edit: I think mowens hit the nail on the head. The only thing I would add to that, is that when I'd had enough it was a culmination of that week's conversations, not just the conversation we were in at the time. At one point he was telling me what I was and wasn't allowed to talk about. 

[megatronprime]

Okay, thanks for the extra information guys